When you look at relationship trouble the very idea of being able to fix it with a sense of honesty can feel a bit overwhelming. There are some significant feats in this world, many of them tend to cause a bit of pain. However, as you complete these feats you develop a stronger sense of character and become a better person. Even if you simply don’t make it through your troubles, learning how to effectively be honest with a partner now creates better future relationships.
It can be hard to spurt out honest thoughts and feelings. We often aren’t even sure what we really feel at first because we tend to spend some time lying to ourselves first. Maybe we have felt like this in other relationships and yet we blame our partner for how we feel. While it is illogical, we often respond that way at least in the early stages of trouble.
One of the leading causes of relationship difficulties includes sexual intimacy. This can be a very difficult avenue for couples to explore and can easily ruin a relationship if it is not handled. There is almost always a different level of sexual interest for each partner. When one partner constantly values it and craves it much more than the other, problems arise.
When one partner consistently feels that sex is not enough of the relationship then a certain resentment and insecurity develops. One of the most difficult aspects of dealing with this issue is that most of the time talking about it turns into pressure, and applying pressure for sex has the opposite effect.
Of course, relationship trouble can breed from many different topics. Some of these include money, social interactions, and parenting issues. Whatever the topic may be, chances are it has been there for quite awhile if it has built up into something problematic for the relationship.
The easy thing to say is to improve the way you communicate. Of course, better communication will always lead to better understanding. Practicing good listening skills and realizing when you are not actually being attacked can be a good footing for better talking.
When you create a scenario that keeps everyone responsible for their own feelings and behaviors your communication process is easier and more honest. We tend to actually create our own emotions and then blame someone else for them. We think things, even in the briefest of moments, that create our feelings.
We all come into relationships with a certain amount of garbage. It can be hard to clean out that garbage and live cohesively with another human being that we love. Relationship troubles can usually be solved by examining that garbage. When you’re honest and your partner is honest, things tend to get resolved. Couples therapy is really just a place with an honesty referee. You can learn to referee your own honesty and get your relationship issues into a much better light.
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